Self-dependence

The fresh chill breeze hit my face, my body and I could feel relief after a good amount of sleep. The day before yesterday(06/7/21), it was my friend’s birthday party which was held at 6 pm near Koikikas city. I, with my colleagues, went to his party a bit early to enjoy and to prepare for the party. We hung balloons on the entire doors and walls, stuck “Happy birthday Raj” with his face on the wall behind the party stage and we arranged food from a five-star hotel near Koikikas city which was located on the jacucas main road.

Hello guys, welcome you all to my optimistishere blog post. Hope you all are staying safe and striving hard to reach your destination ‘SUCCESS’.

I’m Dikshit, the one who is doing the narrative part in this story, and the story dialogues will be from me. I’m a student, doing MBA and I quite do have lots of friends who are not real which I found from one incident. Want to know? Story continues.

Raj- Wow! Wonderful decorations guys. I really thank my dearest friend Dikshit.
Hey, don’t tell me like that, you are my friend and if I don’t help you and if I don’t make the celebration grand, then what for am I called a friend? I said.
Okok but should give credits to the guy who did it right?
Ehh.. stop buttering me, get ready soon, the guest will be here soon.
Okok. I love you Dikshit. You are really a true friend to me.
I saw with an overreacting expression. Yeah, I’ll be back.

The party took place in a grand manner. Everything was perfect and the guests were happy about the food and everything, mainly the atmosphere where the party was held. Nothing special about the atmosphere- just simple folk songs with quiet viewing lights and the air-conditioned hall in my Raj’s house.
I stayed that night at his house and left the next day. The day which I really couldn’t believe.

07/7/21 WEDNESDAY
I was quite happy because many guests were happy about the party’s arrangements. Also, it was my friend’s birthday in which I had spent the money on the food and arrangements.
I went through my Instagram page, I saw many photos of Raj’s birthday party which my friends uploaded, and found that I was not there in even one pic. Never mind Dikshit, I said to myself. But it bothered me. I then saw Raj’s posts, he had posted some group pics and cakes and some pics of his friends. Also, I couldn’t find my pic anywhere.
I thought “ Am I doing something unnecessary? Am I doing something which doesn’t bother me? Am I doing something which the birthday boy, my close friend, didn’t even bother? “ thoughts filled my mind. By that time, it became noon. I had lunch in my usual restaurant called MITHAIJI, which was located 5kms from my rented house. It was raining unusually at noon. I, after eating a hearty lunch of Rotti, paneer tikka, Dahi, dal, and some white rice, returned to my rented house with a moderate speed on my bike without wearing a raincoat under the power of the rain spill.
I slipped and fell down on the road. Blood was flowing like water from the running tap, my hand got scratched and my right leg was injured a lot, and I don’t know what more happened. I collapsed. I got up, tried to open my eyes, blinked, and visualized that I was in a hospital. Someone called the ambulance and thus came here.
My leg was fine but couldn’t move fast as before, my right hand got fractured and lots of blood went out from my body and someone donated blood and everything was done before I could realize or before I became conscious.

Somehow the news spread, my colleagues came to visit me. And my closest friend Raj also came and gave me a basket full of fruits.
That’s all, nothing else. After that, I had to stay in that hospital for a few weeks to undergo treatment. The first day, on which I got in an accident, many came to visit. But after that, none came, including Raj. I survived and survived alone.

From the story, what can we understand?
This is life. There won’t be anyone in our harder times but many will in the happier times though it might be fake. We, ourselves are the person who is our companion, guide, motivator, and everything in this world. We should be Self-dependent as it’s the only way to lead life. Depending on others doesn’t work. As you can’t depend. You should make your mindset and you should be self-dependent to achieve and survive in life.

Always be happy and be an optimist.
Thank you.

Am I really enjoying life?

Hello readers, welcome back to my blog posts. Yeah, it became too much time to come back and write something beautiful and really the schools got started, and thus couldn’t maintain the blog for a few months.

Hope you all are staying safe and striving hard to reach your destination “SUCCESS”. 

So, today’s topic is “ Am I really enjoying life? “, well many have or had doubts based on this content. I hope many are thinking right now about enjoyment. 

What does enjoy mean? 

  • take delight
  • pleasure in (an activity or occasion)

Enjoyment doesn’t mean having a BMW/ a home on the 56th floor in a multistorey building. But something more than that. It doesn’t mean having a Lamborghini. 

So you may ask me what does enjoyment mean? Or what can we enjoy if it’s not from BMW/ Lamborghini? 

Well, enjoyment comes from the heart. It’s a feeling of pleasure and happiness, satisfaction, making something good to someone and literally, it’s a passion. 

A man who sleeps for 8 hours or more is enjoying more than the richest person who couldn’t sleep for 8 hours, atleast. The quality of sleep is more important than the quantity of sleep. Quality in the sense having a peaceful sleep without any disturbances.

Enjoyment is there in every aspect of life. Does eating, sleeping, studying, reading books, walking, feeling lonely, crying, dancing, singing, listening to music, watching television, etc are not enjoyable?

Guys, everything is enjoyable if we have that talent to enjoy. Basically, we must be optimistic to enjoy everything in life. 

So, don’t worry about anything in life, rather enjoy everything in life. 

Hope you all might understand what I’m trying to say. 

Now comment below, “who all are enjoying life?”

Always be happy and be an optimist.

Thank you.

STRESS PROBLEM LEADS TO “LIFE PROBLEM” (CHAPTER 2)

Welcome back. In the chapter 1 of – Stress problem leads to “LIFE PROBLEM”, we read that there were two close friends namely Bob and Jib. Jib was a cool guy whereas Bob was a tension guy. Due to Stress, Bob really couldn’t sleep properly, eat properly, play with his kids properly, and couldn’t even do his work properly. He was in the trap of STRESS. Now he went to Jib’s house to talk with him. 

Story continues –

Welcome Bob, take a seat. What would you like to have? Asked Jib.

Yeah well, one coffee, Jib.

As I said before, I couldn’t really sleep or do anything properly. The tension or the anxiety, something disturbs me. The responsibilities of mine are ordinary as all people have but I couldn’t manage it. I earn a good salary but I couldn’t really save some. This keeps me thinking that I should earn more again, or do a job after coming from the office. My head is in pain and I can’t enjoy anything but I have everything which makes me feel comfortable. In the beginning, I was really well but after a few years and months, it became worse. 

Okay okay… wait for a minute. Allow me to talk any. Let me try to give you some ideas. 

See, life is just as simple as you can imagine. If you think that is difficult or this is difficult, you can’t do it. Similarly, if you think this money is not enough for survival, then you cannot live in your budget and will not be able to save any. YOU are under one bad dream, STRESS. Just think of something good and sleep, so that you can enjoy your dream. Feel the cool breeze which is coming from the window, enjoy the chirping sound of the birds, take a walk in the evening and early in the morning, read some books which can make you involved and which makes you an optimist, go for a journey, travel a lot which helps to refresh your mind regularly, play with your kids, talk and spend time with your family which makes you more comfortable and soothe you a lot. This is not the end, you can also do something which makes you comfortable. Listen to music which creates happiness and relaxation in everyday life, reduces stress and lessens anxiety. 

I’m just giving tips and this is not a solution to the problem, by practising these or many, you may feel like you have escaped from the bad dream, STRESS. From every single thing, make the best out of it and make the best version of it for yourself to live a happy and wonderful life. 

Hope you readers got some idea what stress is and how to clean like a dust. Make sure because of you, your surroundings should not frown off but because of you, your surroundings should smile like a flower. 

Always be happy and be an optimist.

Thank you. 

Stress problem leads to “LIFE PROBLEM” (Chapter 1)

This is a short story which is also my favourite story from my classic collections. Hope you all are staying safe and striving hard to reach your destination SUCCESS.

Today, I’m going to tell the cause and the results of stress and how to reduce it to live a happy and wonderful life.

The story begins:

There was a beautiful city named Tynam. Everywhere, we could see trees, small and big buildings, people and attractive shops. This city contained battery cars and thus, the atmosphere of the city was also clean and pleasant.

Two close friends namely- Bob and Jib lived together, studied together in the same school and college, worked together, married together but not lived together.

Both were really like siblings. They both knew what this guy wanted and that guy wanted. Their life was easy going and didn’t get any stress problems till they got a huge responsibility- FAMILY.

After a few years, they have been separated as they went to work on other jobs to meet their financial needs. So now, their interaction between both had been stopped and both focused on work and family.

Later Bob and Jib got two children each. Their life was really interesting till these children grew up. Now after years, their children have grown and they are studying in grade 3 and 4.

Jib was a cool guy whereas Bob was a tension guy. Due to this over responsibilities, Bob couldn’t really control and manage his salary and run his family. So, he worked hard to earn more and he worked overtime, so that he could live a happy life. Now also, he couldn’t manage the expenses and couldn’t really be happy. He earned more than that of Jib but the more he earned, the more he spent. 

Stress 
– The key feature is that, we unknowingly fall into it and we will unknowingly grow it till we know we are trapped by this stress.
– It is a feeling of emotional or physical tension. It can come from any event or thought that makes you feel frustrated, angry, or nervous.

Due to this, Bob really couldn’t sleep properly, eat properly, play with his kids properly, and couldn’t even do his work properly. He was in the trap of STRESS. 

After a few days, Jib contacted Bob by a phone call and Bob really in a sad way expressed his situation to him and finally Jib called him to meet him when he was free in his office. 

Now, what will Jib do to make Bob’s life beautiful? (Chapter 2 coming soon)

Think about this situation and make your day optimistic.

Thank you.

Walking through the woods

Walking, the word itself creates an interest to the walking lovers. The people who walk regularly know the feeling which the word creates. People walk on the terrace, play ground, park, beach, and so on. 

The woods? Yeah, we all know what the woods mean. The woods are the hard substance that trees are made of which we use to make furniture and so on.

Okay, we know the meaning of walking and the meaning of the woods, so you may think what is the connection between these two? That’s what today’s topic is.

I’m going to explain the term ‘ Walking through the woods ‘ , so I request my readers to read it with enthusiasm. 

The term simply means walking through the forest, the feeling of the person when he/she walks through the forest, the difference between walking in the city and in the greenery.

I walked through the woods when I was studying in grade 8 with my family. The greenery scenery, the fresh and cool breeze, small small creatures, the birds chirping, the monkeys jumping from one branch to another and the main thing is the beautiful feeling which came when I was walking through the woods.

Walking through the woods makes us feel energetic and makes our mind fresh.  Because the view that we see mainly reacts with our body and mind. In the city, we’ll see only the atmosphere and the buildings and its people. But in the woods, we can see trees, sunrise and sunset, the creatures, rivers, nature and it’s beauty. Just close your eyes and think about it. What will you do if you get a chance to ‘ walk through the woods ‘. 

This is for the walking lovers and the people who like to enjoy the greenery scenery. 

Always walk like a lion and do like an optimist.

Thank you.

Poem- I like to be in my own way

I like to be in my own way

Own way… way

I like to be in my own way

Huhuhu….

Noone can come in my way

My way… way

Noone can come in my way

Huhuhu… 

I like to travel in one way

In one way… way

I like to travel in one way

Huhuhu… 

But if i wish then I take another way

I take another way… way

Huhuhu… 

Because I am living an independent life

an independent life… life

Huhuhu… 

This is the life of my way, own way

my way, own way… way

Huhuhu…

I like to be in my own way

I never ever like to depend

I never ever like to hang on 

Because I am a legend myself

Myself…  I am a legend

There is nothing to worry

There is nothing to hurry

Because I am in my own way

Own way… way

I am in my own way

I like to be in my own way

This poem came to my mind when I was reading a novel. There is nothing serious about the novel but about the poem. Either you are the creator of your way or I am the creator of my own way.

No one in the world has the right to oppose your own way rather I.

Keep passion towards your own way, and tell me I am in my own way and I like to be in my own way.

Life will be interesting if we are happy today

Readers, welcome back.

The most extraordinary thing in our life is “we don’t know what happens tomorrow”.

Today I am here to tell you a curious and suspicious story about the great king DUMDUM.

You may think like I have never heard of this king’s name. Of Course yes. This is the name from my story’s character. Enjoy it.

DUMDUM, why are you sad today? You won’t be like this as much as I have been with you.

Yes, dad. I have not been like this since today morning. But due to circumstances, an ordinary man should change so, right dad? Mmmm. 

But what circumstances? Elaborate clearly my prince.

The day when I was near the pond SPEDRA, I saw a beautiful rabbit. It was pink in color. 

From that day onwards, I used to go to the pond to see that rabbit.

But after a few days, the rabbit was not there.

Prince, it’s natural. The rabbit would have gone to search food or would have gone to another peaceful place as it’s also a living organism. 

Don’t interrupt dad.

After finding the rabbit was missing, I was shocked.

Dear son, now you would have searched for it, right?

Dad, don’t interrupt. 

I started searching for it as you said, but couldn’t find it. Then I started thinking as a rabbit, where would I go if someone follows me and disturbs me regularly? And the answer for the question is I would have gone to the neighboring place where plenty of water and vegetables, fruits are there.

After thinking like a rabbit, I searched for the place which I thought in my mind as a rabbit.

At last, I found it. The rabbit was in danger. One wolf was chasing it to eat. And after seeing this, I rescued the rabbit. And I took the rabbit to the palace.

Okay my son, but where is it now?

I don’t know dad, I took it here so that it will be safe and can enjoy it’s day easily. 

Don’t worry son. It would have gone to its own place where it can be free and can enjoy itself by finding its own food, escaping from wolf, eagle and taking rest under the shade of the tree and finally playing with it’s friends.

Dad, but why?

My son, there will not be any interest in life if we know what happens tomorrow. As that rabbit knew that its rest entire life will be with you, if it stays here and so, it didn’t want to be here and wanted to enjoy the day without knowing what happens tomorrow.

Oh.. that’s great dad. So, you are telling us that we should be happy today. Either good things happen or bad things happen, we should not worry about the future. Is it dad?

Yes my dear prince DUMDUM. So you will be happy today itself and enjoy today itself, because you don’t know what happens tomorrow. 

My dear readers, just follow what I conveyed to you from this story so that you can enjoy it like a rabbit. 

(Don’t worry about the RED TRAIN -2, it will be coming soon.)

Always be happy and be an optimist.

Thank you.

THE RED TRAIN

Welcome back my dear readers. How you all are smart in your own business. 

Today a part of my incident, a part of my memories, which I am going to tell you now.

A day before yesterday, my father and mother, together, planned for a long tour.

That was a place where all the people lived happily, who were neither sad nor upset.

Yesterday, my parents said about the place to me and my sister. We both were really excited when we heard about the big plan. So, we both started preparing for the upcoming adventure. We were really in a massive mood as we didn’t realise we didn’t take our dinner that day as dreaming about the journey. 

Today we woke up early and I called my father and mother to pack up the things for the upcoming adventurous journey. 

And by 10 am, we started our journey by car to the railway station. 

We were a family who used to forget something in our home while going outstation. Like that we forgot to take our TRAIN tickets. But my family was really a good family as we started our journey half more than early. Now, my father and I rushed to our home and took the TRAIN tickets and came to the station. By the time, the RED TRAIN came and on time, we safely took our seats. 

( Now the interesting thing which happened in the RED TRAIN was really mysterious and you would really think that “it does happen really?” Yes, it happened to us. ) 

Inside the RED TRAIN- wow, dad it’s really amazing. I really didn’t think that the TRAIN would be RED in color…amazing..!

Dad, can I see what’s there in this TRAIN? Yes my son, but be careful. Don’t go too far, be in this radius itself. I said okay and went.

That time while going, I suddenly fell down and stood up and saw one curious thing- A man without a head. OMG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I went near the headless man as I thought it was a dream. But the headless man called me by my name. I was surprised and I realised that it was not a dream and was astonished to hear the man calling my name. HOW IS IT POSSIBLE?

Then I asked that headless man to introduce himself as I am a courageous boy. Then the headless man introduced himself saying that he was not a headless man rather he was a MAGICIAN who can make lots of magics.

Hearing this, I was SHOCKED! It sounds good and I introduced myself to him. And said nice to meet you magician.

After that, we became friends and I asked him to teach me some magic which I could show to my parents and friends. 

And he agreed and taught me some magic. I started practicing it and by the time afternoon came and my father came searching for me and I introduced the magician to my father.

Hope you all think that this is a simple story, but there comes a climax but not now, it will be in THE RED TRAIN part-2.

Keep reading and always be happy and be an OPTIMIST.

(THE RED TRAIN part-2 COMING SOON)

Thank you.

UBAY, THE RICH PERSON – PART 2

Hello guys, hope you all are staying safe and striving hard to reach your destination success. Read UBAY, THE RICH PERSON – PART 1 and read PART-2 for good understanding.

So in PART-1, though Ubay was a rich person, he lost all his properties, business because he kept full confidence in his business partners. Now, he became poor and what he did, we will see now.

Story continues,

He started roaming the cities and streets searching for jobs. Though he was innocent, he didn’t like to forgive his cruel partners. He thought- “ Whatever happened, it’s all because of me. But trusting my partners is not such a bad thing. Mmmmmm… but now I should show them who I am.”

Though he was an educated person, and one of the richest guys, people didn’t give him a job in private multinational companies as they knew the carelessness of UBAY.

So, he found a simple job in a market. Struggling with the poor facilities and facing it with his attitude to develop again into a richest person showed him the way to success by an entrepreneur who came by the way for shopping. He employed Ubay and chose him as his partner in his business.

Now, he became the business partner and was the CEO of that company. A person from their company should represent them in the board meeting between the multinational companies in BUKHA. So UBAY, as CEO represented their company in the meeting. 

In the meeting, his old business partners who cheated him were there and Ubay, didn’t tell them anything to them but attended the meeting casually.

After the meeting, he went near them casually and said to them- “ My dear old fellows, Thank you so much for your faithful response for which I kept my trust in you guys. Keep continuing your work. All the best.”

After hearing these kinds of words from UBAY, the partners said sorry and gave Ubay’s properties, business and everything which they took from him.

And again, Ubay became the richest person. 

MORAL: There is nothing to worry about. If anyone makes you fool, it’s not your mistake, it’s their mistake. Always be bold and be polite. Politely talk to them who made you fool, and so they will themself understand their level and apologize you. 

Always be happy and be an OPTIMIST.

Ubay, the rich person – Part 1

Hello guys. Today’s special story is one of my favorite stories. Read it and enjoy.

This is a story about a young guy whose name is Ubay.

Ubay was a boy from a rich family. He was one of 7 children. As he is a rich guy, he didn’t know the difficulties in life. He really didn’t care about life and completed his education. 

As they are a rich family, they were doing many businesses. 

So this Ubay, didn’t wish to start a new business and took over his family businesses.

But there a problem arises. He has 6 siblings, so the businesses were divided among them and their parents distributed equally to their children. 

That time Ubay, though a careless person, kept full confidence in his business partners.

One day, his business partners made a drama and made a false business contract and showed to Ubay. and Ubay as usual, with full confidence in his partners, didn’t read the contract properly and signed the contract. 

Finally Ubay’s full property, including business, was taken. And he became a poor man. 

Then after that, he went to his siblings house. Though they were siblings, they didn’t help Ubay.

So guys, what can we learn from this? Never trust anyone, keeping trust is good, but is that person capable of keeping your trust? Think! and be careful. 

What would this Ubay do now? 

( Part-2 Coming soon )

Always be positive and be an Optimist.

Thank you.